I just got this email from Brian's (my friend who has Chiari Malformation) sister:
Hey, sorry this is the only way I know to get a hold of you but Brian isn't going to make it through the night and I know you're one of his good friends so I wanted to tell you. I haven't been able to get a hold of Cheryl yet to tell her. My mom is making arrangements to go back to NJ for his ceremony.. When we know what days I'll let you know. And please, if you know of any of his other friends when we find out the date, tell them for me. Thank you.
I feel numb. So please if you pray, please pray that if he passes tonight he goes quickly and as pain free as possible and for his family and friends.